It’s official. I’m an incurable romantic! With all these weddings in my life all year long you’d think that I wouldn’t crumble so but, I confess, I did. Especially when Kate was on her way to the cathedral! Weddings are just such uplifting occasions.
I thought I’d share my two cents about elements of design that went into Kate’s look that can be translated into one that’s appropriate for a beach bride.
Her Dress
Stylistically we certainly saw a gorgeous example of ancient classicism balanced to perfection with elegant modernity. I’m not saying that Kate’s dress was appropriate for a beach wedding, but this combo of ancient and modern looks is good for one. Kate was definitely dressed formally but there was such an aura of simplicity to how she chose to present herself to the public. Her train was, in fact, modest for a royal wedding and I loved how her makeup was so! natural. It made her beauty so non-threatening. It was a true case of just enhancing her natural beauty so that it was visible for the cameras and all in the hall to see.
The stunning lace over her cinched sweetheart bodice with padding at the hips to make her waist appear smaller and the gorgeous pleating of the ballgown skirt made it a perfect expression of balance and symmetry, texture and form – perfect for the modern, stylish woman that Kate is and perfect for a cathedral wedding – though it’s name Westminster Abbey, let’s face it. That was a cathedral!
The Train
I love how cathedral and church weddings give a bride permission to go full tilt with her choices. A train really gives a bride an air of regality. No matter how simple your dress, a train creates a mood so appropriately dramatic that beach brides really shouldn’t write off. They can be made in a very non-traditional way – asymmetrical or falling from the shoulders, for example – and it’s very easy to make them detachable so that you are not encumbered by it during your reception. n essence what I’m saying is that your wedding ceremony is a moment in time where it is not inappropriate to pull out all the stops no matter whether that ceremony is on a beach or in a cathedral. A long drape of silk cascading to and along the floor is fully appropriate for your ceremony. It allows you to be ceremonial for the short time that is needed.
The Veil
I loved the soft nature of her veil and that it was fully covering her face! Though I don’t get to do this look often for beach brides, I am in love with it. For me it symbolizes how love changes and brightens your perspective on the world and how the consecration of your relationship in the ceremony removes the veil between you and your groom that makes you husband and wife. A veil is an amazing addition to your dress that makes it ceremonial and bridal. It adds drama to the ceremony and sets it apart from the reception.
Costume Malfunctions and Behind the scenes secrets
When Kate arrived at the cathedral and stepped out of her car the dress was full of creases. This was anticipated by the designer and Kate was greeted by a bevy of beauties with hair dryers to immediately rectify the situation. A wedding ceremony and reception is a finely orchestrated piece of ceremonial theater. All brides and their designers can learn a lesson in trouble shooting regarding your dress so that, even on the beach, you will be ‘ready for your close up”.
When I get married next, it will be on an secluded tropical island deep in the bosom of Mother Nature. We shall all arrive in boats but I shall have it all – a veil, a train and a classically modern, formal sun gown full of flow and elegance for the natural setting.
Happy Royal Wedding day everyone. I love that I was able to experience both Diana’s and now Kate’s in one lifetime!
Be Radiant,
Jasmine















